Tell my friends im dating someone
I applaud you for writing in about a dating scenario that is all too often mishandled.
Typically sane individuals can become a jumble of nerves, anxiety and expectations.
He too was disappointed with my decision, but understood.
Some things he’d said then made sense; He had no passport! But I couldn’t sleep for a week, I tossed and turned and felt so unsettled.
They convince themselves it is better to just fade away.
They reason that vanishing without a trace is better than rejecting someone out right…right? By not addressing the situation, you will often succeed at exactly the thing you want to avoid: hurting someone.
No one deserves to be left hanging without explanation. Show your match the same respect you would want if the tables were turned.
Make every effort to handle the situation with an appropriate level of consideration and maturity. I like to say that there is seldom a better time than now to tell someone what is true for you, especially if that truth has consequences for the other person.I'm not talking to my ex anymore, maybe I forgot to mention that earlier...